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		<title>Pro-life v Pro-choice</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was revealed today that women will be able to have an abortion without the need for the signature of two doctors in an overhaul of abortion laws. The shadow Home Secretary, Andrew Lansley, told MP’s that he aims to make it easier for women to have earlier abortions and to lower the time limit [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cameela.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3625892&amp;post=10&amp;subd=cameela&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">It was revealed today that <a title="view orignial news story" href="http://www.marieclaire.co.uk/news/world/256813/women-able-to-abort-without-two-doctors-consent.html" target="_blank">women will be able to have an abortion without the need for the signature of two doctors in an overhaul of abortion laws.</a></span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">The shadow Home Secretary, Andrew Lansley, told MP’s that he aims to make it easier for women to have earlier abortions and to lower the time limit for late terminations.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">The government denoted it would not contest the move, indicating that it will almost certainly be passed.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">Of course, <a title="link to prolife.org" href="http://www.prolife.org.uk/" target="_blank">Pro-life </a>protesters will be up-in-arms if the bill is passed and Pro-life <a title="view a BBC article about pro-life MP's" href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk_politics/7044066.stm" target="_blank">MP&#8217;s</a> are already making counter moves to cut the time limit for late abortions from 24 weeks to 22 or less.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;"><img class="alignleft" style="float:left;border:black 2px solid;" src="http://www.davidmacd.com/images/david_macdonald_abortion2.jpg" alt="Pro-life campaigners" width="167" height="194" /></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">Abortion always will be an incredibly controversial issue. Pro-life protesters feel passionately for their cause and I wouldn’t for one minute wish to undermine their beliefs. But I am certainly <a title="link to prochoicemajority.org.uk" href="http://www.prochoicemajority.org.uk/" target="_blank">pro-choice</a>.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">This latest move will offer more choice to pregnant women and, in a country where the rates of <a title="view statistics" href="http://findoutmore.dfes.gov.uk/2005/08/teenage_pregnan.html" target="_blank">teenage pregnancy </a>and the number of <a title="view statistics" href="http://www.statistics.gov.uk/cci/nugget.asp?id=432" target="_blank">single parents </a>are amongst the highest in Europe and there is a <a title="view related article" href="http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/families/article3913186.ece" target="_blank">massive shortage of foster parents</a>, this is surely no bad thing.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">Now don&#8217;t get me wrong. I&#8217;m not suggesting that teenagers or single mothers make bad parents, I am simply behind a woman&#8217;s right to choose the right time for her. It seems that some women who unexpectedly find themselves pregnant see, or indeed have, little choice other than to keep the child. <img class="alignright" style="float:right;border:black 2px solid;" src="http://www.mccullagh.org/db9/10d-14/pro-choice-protesters-sm.jpg" alt="Pro-Choice campaigners" width="192" height="128" /></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">To some extent this will always be the case. Sometimes it is too late to have an abortion and I fully agree that there should be a humane time limit on terminations.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">But if accidents happen, as they can often do, the government should do all it can to ensure that abortion, and of course <a title="link to adoption.org" href="http://www.adoption.org.uk/information/default.html" target="_blank">adoption</a>, offer women as much choice as is medically, humanely and practically possible.</span></p>
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		<title>What&#8217;s wrong in Austria?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 15:56:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After Joesf Fritzel was able to conceal his daughter in an underground dungeon for 24 years the Austrian police should be hanging their heads in shame.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cameela.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3625892&amp;post=9&amp;subd=cameela&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;"><a href="http://www.marieclaire.co.uk/news/256893/josef-fritzl-search-continues.html" target="_blank"><span style="color:#0000ff;">Today&#8217;s news</span></a> reported that police are searching the underground dungeon where Josef Fritzel kept his daughter captive for 24 years, for buried bodies.</span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">Police will break down the walls in the cellar to get to the hidden rooms as well as investigating the electrics and plumbing to ascertain whether Fritzel could have constructed the dungeon alone.</span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">This is a truly horrific crime and it is impossible to imagine the ordeal suffered by Elisabeth Fritzel and the seven children that she mothered as a result of her father&#8217;s sexual abuse.</span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">It makes me wonder how Fritzel was able to hide such an awful crime for so long. He claimed that his daughter had ran away to join a religious sect and when he moved three of the father and daughter&#8217;s children in with him and his wife, he claimed that Elisabeth had abandoned them on the doorstep.</span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">Surely I&#8217;m not the only one who find&#8217;s these circumstances somewhat suspicious?</span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">So why, one wonders didn&#8217;t the police, or anyone else for that matter, hear alarm bells ringing. </span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">It is very difficult to believe that no-one living in the small community of Amstetten witnessed anything that raised suspicion. For 24 years this man was living a double life. For 24 years he held his daughter captive in a dungeon underneath his own home. Over 24 years he raped her repeatedly and fathered seven of her children. I might be cynical but it seems highly likely that over those 24 years numerous people from the community may have seen things that didn&#8217;t quite add up. They just chose to ignore their suspicions.</span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">Now I&#8217;m not pointing the finger. It may well be the case that Fritzel was so cunning that he did manage to conceal the crime, even from his wife whom he lived with. </span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">But in that case why weren&#8217;t the police doing more to investigate the disappearance of his daughter? Why did they simply accept his word that she had joined a religious cult? After all, his word could not necessarily be trusted. This is a man who has a history of sex crimes including convictions for rape and attempted rape, as well as being investigated for an unrelated murder. </span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">In an article on <a href="http://www.brandrepublic.com/News/806244/Austria-hires-image-consultants-following-national-scandal/">BrandRepublic</a> the Austrian Chancellor, Alfred Gusenbauer is quoted as saying: &#8220;It&#8217;s not Austria that is the perpetrator. This is an unfathomable case, but an isolated one.&#8221;</span></p>
<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">But this is not strictly true. The shocking revelations lead us to draw comparison with the case of <a title="view Natasha Kampush interview" href="//www.youtube.com/v/YSZc5UR4H8s&amp;hl=en">Natasha Kampush <img class="alignright" style="float:right;border:black 2px solid;" src="http://www.index-go.com/images/natasha-kampusch-natacha-kempusch-natascha-kampuch-natassia-kempush-natacha-kampouche.jpg" alt="Natasha Kampush" width="101" height="111" /></a>who escaped two years ago from a basement in a house in Vienna where she had been held for over eight years.</span></p>
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<p style="line-height:14.25pt;"><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;">I can tell you one thing for sure; I wouldn&#8217;t like to be in need of help in Austria. It seems that neither the police, nor the people would bat so much as an eyelid. This is not the first such case and I am pretty sure that it won&#8217;t be the last.</span></p>
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		<title>Its ok to be gay, but for heavens sake don&#8217;t act gay!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 15:33:31 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">Recently America&#8217;s first homosexual Bishop, <a title="view Bishop Robinson's biography" href="http://www.nhepiscopal.org/bishop/bishop.html" target="_blank">Gene Robinson </a>of New Hampshire, announced his forthcoming civil partnership to his boyfriend of 20 years and gushingly said: </span></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">&#8220;I always wanted to be a June bride.&#8221;</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">The proud statement came after he had delivered an hour-long lecture on the relationship between religion and public discourse, and why religious fervour over homosexuality plays such a large and negative role in the securing of full civil rights for gay people.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">It seems that his lecture didn&#8217;t really hit home as, thanks to scores of conservative bloggers, within hours Bishop Robinson&#8217;s eight little words had made it all around the world.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><img class="alignleft" style="float:left;" src="http://gayspirituality.typepad.com/blog/images/2007/07/28/generobinson.jpg" alt="Bishop Gene Robinson" width="300" height="441" /></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">It really does beg the question &#8211; what on earth is the big deal?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">The problem seemed to be his use of the word &#8216;bride&#8217;. By using the term he feminised himself, which some obviously found a little too hard to handle. It seems that he caused offence by relegating a &#8216;privileged&#8217; man to the status of a woman.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">There was actual outrage in some quarters, most particularly the more conservative areas of Middle America. But if America has accepted a gay Bishop, to surprisingly little objection, why is America, and the world at large, so bemused when the man in question expresses his homosexuality?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">So, the apparent liberalising step in religion is in fact not very liberalising. It seems that Bishop Robinson&#8217;s critics are saying &#8220;we&#8217;ll let you be gay&#8230;but we&#8217;re just not so comfortable with you acting gay&#8221;.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">In an article in the <a title="view feature" href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/faith/article3833364.ece" target="_blank">Sunday Times</a>, Bishop Robinson has said of his statement: </span></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">&#8220;It was a stupid thing to say. I should have known better.&#8221;</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">I would like to suggest that it is his critics that should have known better. It is because of such bigoted reactions that so many teenage boys and girls sit in their bedrooms day after day, too frightened to speak out, too frightened to express themselves&#8230;too frightened to be gay.</span></p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t give up the fight for Mr Right</title>
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<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">So I was flicking through this week’s <a title="link to timesonline.co.uk" href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/" target="_blank">Sunday Times </a>when I unwittingly stumbled upon a feature that shook me to my feminist my core. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">Here was I under the impression that the twenty first century woman has it all. Gone are the days of marrying young, popping out a few sprogs by the time we&#8217;re 25 and spending the rest of our lives home-making. The world is our oyster &#8211; we have more opportunities than ever before and society’s sensibilities no longer inflict guilt upon a 30 something, high-flying business woman with no intention of marrying or becoming a mother for a good 10 years.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">How wrong I was. The article in the Sunday Times Style supplement, <a title="view article" href="http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article3883168.ece" target="_blank">Settle for Less in Love</a>, asks women embarking upon their 30&#8242;s to stop messing around looking for Mr Right and instead find Mr Marry Me Quickly And Give Me Children. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">The writer pre-empted responses such as this from scores of single 30 something’s telling her that she has no idea what she&#8217;s talking about. In response she has already written such women off as of course being petrified about not having bagged themselves a bloke yet and simply in denial or lying.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">Well I&#8217;m actually 23 and this article has singlehandedly made me doubt my own sex. What did feminists fight for in the bra burning days of the 60&#8242;s if it wasn&#8217;t to give the modern women the freedoms and capabilities they need not to rely on men? How can we now be reverting by 50 years to a time when a life without a man was an uncharacterised semi-existence? Apparently the woman of the naughties NEEDS a man, and a substandard one at that.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">Now I&#8217;m no man-hater. In fact I like men. And I have absolutely no quarm with women who find Mr Right, settle-down early and live a happy life as a wife and mother. Actually, I might even be a little jealous of those woman who stumble upon someone who&#8217;s perfect for them without the catalogue of bad relationships and tedious dates that many of us leave behind.<img class="alignright" style="float:right;border:black 2px solid;" src="http://img.timeinc.net/health/i/200704/ThrowInTowel_225.jpg" alt="Mr Wrong" width="122" height="127" /></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">My problem is with the suggestion that after a certain age women should just settle for any old man, as long as he&#8217;s fertile of course. I mean, what a ridiculous notion! How can it be a valid suggesstion that, for the sake of settling down and having kids quick women must resolve themselves to a most likely unhappy marriage with a bloke that they possibly don’t even love.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">I can guarantee that you won&#8217;t find a similar feature between the covers of FHM or Men&#8217;s Health. Men really can have it all. Nowadays it barely raises an eyebrow to hear of a man in his 50&#8242;s who hasn&#8217;t yet settled. Why on earth has this double standard reared its ugly head again?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:7.5pt;color:#000000;font-family:Verdana;">Let us dispel this crazy notion. All you single women stand proud and shout loud. You deserve Mr Right and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!</span></p>
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